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I can understand where you are coming from and I think you raise some valid arguments. Are you involved at all within the fraternity? Maybe you could try to get on the fraternity's brotherhood committee and try to help some plan some brother bonding activities. Or maybe try to be on the rush committee to help recruit more guys that you think hold values similar to your own. It's cheesy...but be the change you wish to see.
This is just me personally, but I usually see little benefit to just quitting. Perhaps there are more people in the fraternity that feel the way you do and just don't say anything. Groupthink is a dangerous culprit. I think the more you force yourself to get involved and meet more people on a personal level, the better is. I'm assuming you are a freshman as well. Living in the house as a sophomore almost always makes things better because then you really get to know everyone. I know I wasn't as close to my pledge class, maybe just a particular few, until I lived in the house. That's when it really brought us all together.
If you want, PM me and I'd be happy to give you some more advice.
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