Hello everyone on GC. I have been reading lots of threads on here but never decided to post until now. So here is my situation that I hope you can all help me with...
Last fall I went through rush as a freshman. The process was so overwhelming to me since I have no family members that are greek, that I dropped out in the middle of rush. I had my favorite house still asking me back, and my third choice as well. Some of the other houses that were my "top picks" did not invite me back however. I realize now though that through that whole process I was trying to be the "perfect rushee". I look back now seeing how much of a cookie cutter I was, and understanding why I was cut. After getting accumulated to college life and joining some other organizations, I realize now that I really wish I would've gone greek when I first rushed. I understand that next year If I decide to rush again, that it will be difficult because I would be a sophomore.
I thought that background information would give you more about me. I hope you don't bash all of what I just said though!
Now for my questions: How do you think sororities view re-rushers? Would they even remember them? Also, do you have any non-blunt advice that you could give me? I say non-blunt because I've seen some people on GC get pretty antsy and I would prefer not to have that if at all possible!
Thank you so much guys!