I am lost as to what I should do right now. I go to a very large southern university (as I'm sure you can tell from my username
) and it's a great school but I feel like it's so hard to find my place. I have rushed not once, but twice, and both times I was dropped from recruitment. I have friends in every chapter, and know about half the girls in a specific chapter, but it still didn't work out. I have heard from multiple people that girls just fall through the cracks here because there are sooooo many people that go through rush, but it still hurts.
Greek life is something that I so strongly wanted to be a part of, and even most of my guy friends are greek, and I always get teased for being GDI. But I feel like these are the kind of people that I most closely identify with, and I just don't understand it.
So my point to all this is, along with other factors because I go to such a massive university, I have had trouble finding my group of people. I mean I have plenty of friends, but they all have their organizations (mainly GLOs) that they ALSO have, and I can't help but be jealous and feel left out. I am very strongly considering transferring to a smaller school where I can be more involved in the school community, and most likely get a bid.
I just don't know if that is a stupid idea or not, I feel kind of dumb for factoring greek life into my transfer decision, but I can't help it. I just want to hear some insight from posters on here, so let me know what yall think please!
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