Having problems with your wife not listening to you?

[DrPhil]

"Well, I'm going to get some heat for this one...."

I feel the same way about this that I feel when GCers start their posts with phrases like "I'm gonna get flamed for this...." Just type/say what you're going to type/say. LOL.

A lot of men have masculinity problems and feel that they have to be in charge (some call this "head of household") so they either find a submissive woman (submission is different than reciprocity) or attempt to "gender shame" a nonsubmissive woman into submission.

Michael Baisden's show was about old cheaters today. He said there's the "the shut up gift" after a man cheats. After a man apologizes so much, he may propose to the woman which essentially says "will you marry me? here's the ring...now forgive me and shut up about it." The tone that I gathered from his statement is that women are dumb and easily "shut up."