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Old 05-26-2010, 09:16 AM
baci baci is offline
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If the OP is going to link a dating website that is one thing, but if not I see nothing wrong with the question.

I have been through this time period and I can share what I feel.

Yes, it is your life and you do have to do what is right for you! You should not feel pressure to marry because everyone you know is marrying. I also think it is perfectly fine to want to marry at this point and I see nothing wrong with it.

I was one of those people single and 30. Then, 30 passed me by. I did want to get married, but it was not time for me and I had not met the right person. Would I have wanted to marry by then? Absolutely! It was just not something I could control myself.

There are many benefits to marrying younger and beginning a family if you are committed to the one you are with. It also wouldn't hurt if you have your life in order for this to run a tiny bit smoother as well. It will never be perfect, but there are things to hopefully accomplish and have in order before you walk down the aisle.

It would be silly to think how it would be for me to have married younger and have had all of my children younger, but I am wise enough to know some of it would definitely be easier than it is now. There are some pluses just as there are tougher spots. Isn't that with everything in life?

Try not to stress as it happens when it will happen. You will be fine.

Last edited by baci; 05-26-2010 at 09:19 AM.
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