Hey, Barbie's Rush! I am fairly sure that each girl was given a bid. And 33girl, I'm afraid your right that there might be a division, because I think my new member class was bigger than their chapter

. Either way, I think if I go through recruitment (which i have almost decided for sure I will do) I will still be able to give this group a chance too! I think it's just a little more settling to know that I will get to make a decision based on all the sororities again, like I did the first time.
Is there anything else I should take into account or am forgetting to think about? I didn't have recs the first time around, do you think I should go ahead and try to get them this time? Even for the group that offered us bids, if I got a rec to that group, it might be a good way to show I am interested in seeing what they are about, after the faux pas of turning down the bid (I have not done this yet, but if I go through recruitment I will have to). I've done a bit of reading on this board, and it does seem to me that the most "tried and true" advice is keeping an open mind, so I just want to make sure that I consider everything to make the best decision possible. Wish me luck!
Edited to add: Also, do you think the other sororities are going to question my loyalty to a group because I am "jumping ship" so quickly? I hope not, because I don't feel as if I had a choice, and plenty of girls depledge (for whatever reason) and go through recruitment again, right?