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Originally Posted by carnation
...... I'll probably have to go the passive aggressive route, as suggested by APhiAnna, or the one suggested by CutiePie2000 so as to save face for her and keep family peace. Ironically, she would make a great AI and probably throw herself into it 100%. But dang! Why is she embarrassing us all like this?
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Hi Carnation,
Who knows why people do the things that they do(??), but as she is a family member or an extended family-relative (etc.), it's probably best to deal with it delicately.
In some ways, if she AI'd and would be an active alumna who would support the collegiate chapter, then encourage her to do so and go that route. As for what happened in the past, give her an opportunity to explain herself, but if the explanation doesn't happen, maybe just let it go and encourage her to AI into ABC.
Let us know how it all turns out.