Update! I ordered the rose charms...I can't tell you how excited my sisters were when they saw the picture! I promise I'll put pictures up once we make them...it'll probably be next semester though because we want to put them together as a sisterhood.
I'm hoping to get beads like this to put on either side of the charm.
http://www.auntiesbeads.com/ProductD...2-47d713730dde(only not those...wish we could afford Swarovski Crystal, but I'll have to get mine from the craft store!

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Anyway, I want to get green and clear beads like those to put on the safety pins. It'd be a clear bead, a green bead, the rose charm, a green bead and a clear bead for the safety pin things. I wanted to have 3 beads for the 3 stars, but it wouldn't look quite as good as the symmetry of four. My sisters and I decided girls don't have to put their charms on safety pins, though. They can put them on their lavalier, on a bracelet etc. We love being individuals, and this way we can have our common thread used in individual ways!
You guys are awesome for all your helpful suggestions. I'm so proud to be a part of an organization that keeps the bonds of sisterhood strong, even when we don't (personally) know each other. AOT love to you all!!