Hahahaha. I've mentioned the DTR a few times on here. hahahaha.
Anyway, I'm much like dreamseeker. But, I have absolutely no tact when it comes to these sorts of things. I've asked a guy if he wanted dibs. I've asked a guy if he had dibs. My current boyfriend..... We were out at a bar one night and I was pretty drunk. I just looked at him and said, "Are you my boyfriend?" And, he said "yes." I asked him again the next morning when we were both sober, just to make sure.
When a guy approaches me with the DTR, I lay it out like a contract. "You realize I'm high maintenance. I require a lot of attention and expect you to call me daily. If you say you're going to do something, I expect you to do it and will call you out if you don't. I am sometimes annoying and overly perky. I will probably get on your nerves and embarrass you if I laugh in public......." So on and so forth. It's funny, I've never had any guy change their mind after I've said that to them.
I always think it's funny that when we break up, the guy will usually cite one of the things discussed above as the reason for the break-up. And, I always say, "HEY! I WARNED YOU!"
...I know, I'm awkward.....
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