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Originally Posted by interest2009
hey all, i was recently informed that i was an interest but after meeting some of the girls i discovered that this group may not be the right fit for me. it's nothing personal but i want to make the right choice. also too i think some other groups found out that i was an interest. what's a tact way to remove myself and does this ruin my chances for the other groups if i wish to get to know them. I can't explain it but I know it's not for me. all response would be much appreciated
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How can you be informed that you are an interest? Did you submit an interest letter? Whether you did or not, just respectfully let the members know that you are no longer interested...or are not interested at this time. And as far as others knowing that you are/were an interest, there is nothing you can do about that now. You'll just have to wait and see how things play out but at least you are changing directions now and won't end up doing something that's not in your heart. No one needs that. If you really want to pursue another org or need more time before making a decision, make sure it's in your heart first (sounds like you need to take some more time and do the research; for some it's all about the members on their campus and for others, it's about the org as a whole and its legacy). It depends on your campus culture but on most campuses regarding the NPHC orgs, you are encouraged to research all but pursue one and only one; jumping from group to group is frowned upon. Good Luck!
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