pulling a girl from recruitment...from another chapter.

[AOII Angel]

Another thought is...one sister rarely gets to decide for the whole group (speaking generally, of course) so just because you don't see her as a good fit for the chapter doesn't mean that other sisters agree with you. You should tell the people that you are friends with very specific instances of why you don't see her as a member of your group. Let them decide if they want to bring it up. If she gets in, she gets in.