i know a girl at a school with my chapter, and i know her well. we live together now (freshmen) and i am transferring next year for money reasons (i will stay active at my new school) and in the beginning we were great friends. however i made the mistake of introducing her to a few of my sisters who she is now pretty good friends with. she is also living with one of them next year. in reality she only knows a very small fraction of the chapter, but i know it's enough to get her a bid when she goes through recruitment next year. but she's not at all fit to be in my sorority. she doesn't stand for any of our values, she's abrasive and offensive and she's a bully--she always has to be right. the girls i'm closer with from that chapter at my old school know that we've had problems, but i'm not expecting them to pull her during recruitment. is there any way i can prevent her from getting a bid when she rushes? i know this probably sounds catty and stupid, but i am truly trying to look out for my chapters best interest. and in all honesty, i dont think she would be offered a bid if she did not know those few girls so well. should i just forget about it and let things fall into place or try to do something about it? and what course of action should i take if i should do something?
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