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Originally Posted by deepimpact2
I don't really like how some women put such a heavy emphasis on natural childbirth...even going so far as to make women feel as if any other route makes you less of a woman and less of a mom. I personally have no need to be a hero and IF I ever have kids, I would prefer a C-section.
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I will say upfront that I had two completely medicated childbirths (Yay epidurals!) and I am very happy with how their births and recovery (and my recovery) went. I will definitely say even though my second child was very large, the recovery was actually easier than with my first.
However, there is some merit for having a drug-free birth. Everything I've read, and the friends I've talked to who have had a natural childbirth, say their baby is more awake and alert right after delivery, responds to nursing right away better and the recovery was much less painful than if they had a previous medicated birth.
As far as Cesareans go, I think a lot of people don't realize that is Major Surgery. Recovery time is increased and the recovery itself is often more difficult than a vaginal birth. Many OBs will not do elective Cesareans unless medically necessary. And having a c/s doesn't guarantee a painless birth - unless it's an emergency and you're knocked out.
As with anything in life, you have to do the research and decide for yourself what's best for you and your family. I get annoyed with the holier-than-thou moms, too, even though I am friends with some. I just choose not to let it affect me. I own my birthing and parenting skills and they can screw it if they don't approve.
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