Your input please?

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At my daughter's school, some sororities held informal get togethers with PNM's prior to the beginning of recruitment. My daughter went to 2 of the get togethers for one of the sororities, and each time, one of the actives gave her a ride to and from. Recruitment began and she was invited back on Day 2 to this sorority and another one. On Day 3, which was Preference Day, she had no invitations. The president of the chapter she had socialized with, phoned her during the time of the first Preference party and said "The reason you were cut was because only a couple of the girls had the chance to get to know you, but we would still like to get to know you, so we'll be having informal recruitment next week and we'd love for you to come". Let me make clear that my daughter understood that no one had promised her anything, and that also one would never know the reason she was cut. I would just like to know what any of you think of the way this all happenned.