so long story short, i'm non-Greek. i planned on participating in formal recruitment my freshman year, but ended up having to withdraw from a class (which put me under the required min. credits...ok for the university, not ok for rushing). i really was looking forward to formal recruitment, and was quite upset with myself for not being able to do better. this is where i got stupid...
so my friend and i randomly pick up a hoodie with XYZ letters. it's not worn (never has been, never will be), but it is in a private place where it serves as motivation for improving my grades, breaking out of my shy shell, etc. i don't claim to be Greek or anything of the sort, it's more to personally get me on track.
here's the thing...if i make the grades/credits to participate THIS year, will owning that matter? i already feel weird/bad enough for even thinking about picking it up. i'm just the type of person that needs visual motivation and what not. also, since i'm not Greek, i really didn't know what was ok and what wasn't. obviously wearing them isn't, i know. but could i donate it to my chapter here (anonymously of course)? what else could i do with it?
i know i probably broke like the biggest Greek rule there is, but it was a random spur of the moment thing and i honestly didn't know. i truly feel very bad
; i just need some advice on what to do, how to treat the situation, etc. any helpful advice would be great!
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