Now I see your point. Well, I am "just" the Mom and would like to inform myself from a parent standpoint
before she heads off to rush next year. Personally, I don't believe the school websites and one rush informational meeting give parents enough info.
I don't know what to say about my posts sounding like a rushee and Mom alike. I do know some things about Greek life from having attended a
very Greek school. Some of my best friends pledged sororities on my campus and we remained friends during school, but their involvement in their sororities and many years and miles have left us long out of touch.
I think what a few of you are really saying is that I sound much too interested in forum posts for a Mom? I get the point. I have to make sure I'm not trying to live what I missed out on (the sorority experience) vicariously through my daughter. I think you might be hinting at that, and if so, you would be entirely right.
However, I can assure you there's nothing more mysterious going on here. If there was, I would have left a long time ago and not chosen to defend my most honest position. Points well taken