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					Originally Posted by  disasterscookie
					 
				 
				Isn't that kind of lying, if I don't bring it up? I don't want to get a bid to the house of my dreams and then have to bring up later that I am married and cannot live in.  
  
The sororities on my campus do ask that you try to live in for a minimum of 2 years, but like I said, they are all pretty much at capacity. 
			
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 Yes but if (like my alma mater, I don't know how NAU is) they suddenly have a ton of women go abroad for the year, the pool of women who can live in diminishes.  And the house has to remain full.
I would definitely ask because what you are calling "ask that you try to live in" is often more of a "requirement to live in" if the house is below capacity.