I am just saying this not to call you names or be rude, but I'm confused. You can say I'm a big mean ol' biatch, and frankly, I don't care.
You just joined Kappa Delta as a new member, today or yesterday. You claim it is your top choice, you're happy there, you love the girls, heck you can even share it with your relatives because they are members. You got what you wanted in the end, so why are you on GC talking about being released and perceived fakeness instead of spending time with your new sisters? To be blunt if I found out a new sister from my chapter was hung up and focused on the groups who didn't want her, when we extended her a bid and welcomed her into our sisterhood in the past 24 hours, I'd definitely have a look like

on my face and be thinking WTF?
It is Friday night, you just joined a sorority, why are you on GC posting about the other sororities and not spending time with your new sisters?