Questions
Sisterfriends of GC-10 questions for ya!
1. Did you decide upon your organization of choice PRIOR to visiting GC?
Yes, I have always had a strong interest in my organization of choice.
2. Would you let the views or beliefs of one sway your interest to another organization?
3. Would you let the tactics of another (member or non-member) sway your decision to become a member of an organization you really had no interest in?
No, I feel I have made the best decision for ME. No one else's opinion should deter me from my interests and beliefs. The only influence I let people have over me are positive ones.
4. Do you think that you would be offended if someone came to you so that you could become a member of their organization when you have clearly decided that you want to become a member of another organization?
No, I would not be offended b/c one if I am being discrete then no one in another organization should how "clear" my interest in another organization is. If a member of another organization came to me I would be flattered to know that she sees enough good to me to want me as a member.
5. What does the notion that someone would try to deliberately sway your intent say about that person?
It depends on the person and their tactics. If someone comes to me badmouthing another organization to uplift theirs, I would find that person to be unworthy of my time. But if someone were to mention the merits of one organization to broaden my horizions and let me make my own decisions that is fine.
6. Would you find fault with the organization as a whole or only the person?
As stated above if the person came at me in the wrong manner, I would hold it against her personally, she doesn't voice the opinions of the whole (I am going through with a group I work with now).
7. What does that say, if anything about the person who tries to get you to follow her into her organization when that isn't really what you want to do?
It says nothing that person may not understand that what's best for him/her may not be best for me. I would just have to be strong enough in my convictions to not be swayed.
8. Ultimately, what kind of person would you be to succumb and follow when you know that isn't what you want to do?
[COLOR=orange]If I were to do this, I would be very weak. But I can't see myself being drawn in like that.
9. Could you look yourself in the mirror?
Looking myself in the mirror would not be the biggest problem, looking the members of the organization in their knowing that everytime I say I love this org. I would lying to them and myself.
10. What does that say (if it says anything) about your integrity?
I would feel I have no integrity if you can't stand up for what you believe in then you may get what you really want.
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