I guess maybe I didn't explain myself clear enough in my first post....
I understand everything that has been said and I agree with it. However...telling a sister or a PNM to take it out JUST for rush and put it back in after to me is pointless.
If Suzy PMN doesn't want chapter ABC because Sister Jane has a nose ring. Jane takes it out for rush and puts it back in after. If PNM Suzy she gets a bid and accepts to ABC and then sees Jane with a nose ring, what is to stop her from dropping? And if she doesn't, who says she would have not wanted ABC based on that?
Same thing on the other side. If DEF doesn't want PNM Patty because Patty has a nose ring lets say. PNM Debbie has one but took it out for rush and puts it back in after. Now, we all know what I'm about to say isn't supposed to happen but it does. What stops DEF from making Debbie so miserable that she drops?
The way I look at it, if it has to be taken out for rush, it should have to be taken out. Period.
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