The wonderful thing you can do for your sister is to allow her to make her own choice - or at least tell her that - what you feel deep in your heart and at the pit of your stomach may be something else!
Then, be there for her each night when she calls with updates, listen to her, encourage her, etc. I know that as you both go through it together, you will be fine with whatever her choice is because you will have watched her go through the process and will be able to understand her choices.
That said, whether you are on the sidelines while a bio sister goes through or a daughter, it is an extremely emotional process because you love sorority and you love your sister/daughter. It just makes sense that you want them to love each other!
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