Biological Sister is a PNM!!

[creamrosecutie]

Hello Hello!
I am new on this forum but not new to the greek system! I am a DG at UBC and I couldn't be happier . I have a couple of questions regarding my little sister - as in biological little sister!! - who has just gradded from high school and is planning to attend formal recruitment!

1. I am so excited for her! Of course I really want her to go DG but I don't want to pressure her. I really want her to join the sorority that she feels is best for her but unfortunately I am really having trouble with talking to her about sororities and not pressuring her. She is a double legacy so I know know know it is in her best interest for me to just not say anything. I don't want her to either join DG because she is a legacy or feel terrible if she doesn't get DG. Any advice on ways I can talk to her about this? About recruitment in general?

2. As far as writing recommendations goes... can active members write recommendations or just alums? I am not in the chapter she will be rushing, I am in a different chapter, but if I can I would love to write her a recommendation!

Any advice would be so much appreciated! Thanks girls!
xxoo
Claire