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You and those sisters who agree with you need to stand up for what you believe in. You may be outnumbered but from what you said, you aren't alone. You may even be surprised by how many older members feel the same way yet were too intimidated to stand up against the wrongdoers. It sounds like you have tried to reason with people and that hasn't worked.
Now is the time for you to make some tough decisions. What is more important to you? Standing up for what you believe in or not rocking the boat and being unpopular with the older sisters? I hope you decide to stand strong, but that choice is up to you. I hope you will show your entire Chapter that you are a leader who will stand firm and not back down.
Maybe it's time to scare folks with some reality. I suggest you do your research first. Go to your Chapter business meeting armed with a copy of your I/natl's policy against hazing. We all have one. Check out your University policies as well. Tell your sisters what they have been doing is wrong and against policy. It threatens your standing as members of your GLO and as a whole Chapter with both your org and your University.
Something else many people don't think about even with so-called "minor" hazing. Hazing of any sort leaves all of you vulnerable to potential legal liability if someone decides to sue. All it takes is one person to file a complaint a lawyer. Since this is in direct violation of your I/natl policies, NPC and the University, no one will come to your defense. You could lose face large $$$ judgements against you as individuals. Anyone think moms and dads would be willing or even able to pay a multi-million dollar settlement due to their daughters' actions? Think they'd appreciate that?
If you can't get them to change then you have one of three choices.
1) Resign your membership. The thing is that won't change anything. The hazing will continue and you will be heartbroken. The hazers will have won and will continue with business as usual.
2) Normally I would suggest you contact your alum advisor first, but you said you don't have one. IMHO that probably explains this has gone on for so long. Anyways, you need to be willing to contact your I/natl. I know this is scary but believe me no I/natl wants one of their Chapters to haze. They will launch an investigation and what happens next will be determined by their findings. Every GLO and every situation are different so it's impossible to predict the outcome. The best case scenario would be that individuals would be held accountable for their actions, not the Chapter as a whole.
3) Last, you could do nothing or worse go along with the hazing. I hope you are strong enough not to choose this option.
I wish you strength in your convictions so that you will be able to persuade your sisters to do what's right.
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