perplexing situation

[pinklion10]

So, there's a girl who always shows up to our recruitment events and has been since last year (when we were both freshmen.) She went through formal rush with me last spring, was given a bid to a house, and denied it because she was not interested. As COB chair this past fall, I extended her an invitation to our chapter's formal desserts (as she had attended some rec. events this fall), and she denied the invitation because she wasn't interested. After not going through formal rush this past weekend, she has been coming to every one of the COB events we've had in the past week, but she said she's not interested in actually joining.

While the girls in the house (and I as well) love the girl, it's a little frustrating that she continually shows up for recruitment events but is still not interested. I would not feel right persuading the recruitment committee to block her from coming to things, but if you're not interested, why come to recruitment events?

Has this happened to any of your chapters/what would your chapter do?