I am seriously. sick. OMG, what a cruddy thing to do! When being a parent becomes about the adult, you know you've taken a wrong turn. Parenting is about meeting the needs of children. You, as an adult, are there to cater to the child's needs. The child is not there to feed some hole in your soul, or to be a bauble that you can just throw around to fit into the neighborhood. The two biological children will be scarred, I'm sure. They'll probably fear doing anything to get mom or dad mad, because in the back of their minds, they could think, "Hey, if they don't like me, mom and dad can always just give me away." Where's the vomit smilie when you need it?
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