Bad situation with Big.. what would you do?

[IsobelS]

Originally Posted by exlurker

#1: Since she's dropping the sorority at the end of the semester, the problem is pretty much going to be solved in a few weeks, right? Just maintain your dignity, steer clear of her as much as possible, and as others have said try for special bonding relationships with other members.

I really agree with this person!! I had a terrible Big who made it difficult for me to do a lot of my pledge-related duties. She wasn't very supportive at all and she even got me into trouble a few times for things that she did! But in the end I just stayed clear of her and she ended up dropping out of the sorority right after I became active. Now I hardly even think about it because the rest of my pledge experience was so enjoyable except for that, and it worked itself out anyway.