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I have an ex-sister who is still a friend who transferred shortly after initiating. She was very unhappy with my chapter and wanted nothing to do with them after she transferred schools. Now she went through recruitment with some friends at her new school with no intention on taking a bid or even expecting one. Strangely enough, she fell in love with one chapter and they extended her a bid. She badly wanted to take it and asked me for counsel.
I told her there probably wasn't any way they could find out but it is a small world and something could slip. She postponed her bid a semester, disaffiliated from my sorority (apparently a very easy process) and was prepared to take the bid but then changed her mind because nursing is such a demanding major. So I think it's possible as long as you're careful. It may be a small world but when your old chapter doesn't speak to her anymore, that's one big hurdle. She probably could have pulled it off but she would have been living a lie. However she's my friend so I told her I'd support her no matter what after telling her all of the above.
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