Regardless of disaffiliation rules, you should not say anything in front of a Pi Chi that would really cause you to stand out as a problem PNM.
So, something like "I hate all the chapters I was invited to" is normal PNM frustration and heartbreak, and you can say it in front of your Pi Chi.
Something like "I almost didn't make it here in time because I am so tired from the coked-up threesome I had last night" is very likely to get back to the Pi Chi's chapter, and possibly others.
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