This happened to my daughter at a Georgia School and she did not pledge the sorority she got a bid for. She felt that they were just about "looks" and parties and she decided to try again for the sorority she wanted for number 1. She did not get it yet again, but does not regret not joining the one she got a bid from last year. She must FEEL at home in a chapter to get the most from it. I am glad my daughter did not settle and she does not regret "OPTING OUT" of the one from last year. Just be sure she decides BEFORE being intiated.
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