Raining on someone's recruitment parade

[Jobellesis]

Momto2 will probably calm down and help her daughter move on after she's had a while to think. If her daughter has always wanted a sorority experience, it may take a little time for them to regroup. Some people (me included) need to blow off steam. Let's face it, though. The sorority experience can be terrific, and it's sad and disappointing to think you may not get to be a part of something that special.

I agree that the pnms are doing all they can and need no more pressure or blame from anyone if they are cut. (I would quote AChiOhSnap, but I not too good at quoting). Very seldom is a cut a personal thing, as we all know. On the other hand, if you're the one that's been cut by everyone, it has to hurt. While I agree that we should all be strong enough to move on, I can honestly say that I would have probably felt sad and rejected if this had happened to my child or me.