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I hate to go all Dr. Phil on you, but it's very true that trust and insecurity have very little to do with the other person in the relationship - it's all about the person having the feelings. Unless you've ever given her a reason not to trust you, then if not about a fraternity, she's going to mistrust you about something else. Better to just do it and see how she reacts, than give up on being in a fraternity and find out down the line that she has issues.
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