Thanks AXIDGIRL for your input..I think you're right about her being so skeptical because she doesnt really know whats going to happen.
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Originally Posted by James
I understand your girlfriend is important to you, but ultimately this is an important personal decision of yours. I am surprised that you would need her to be ok with something you wanted to do with your own life . . .
If she was totally against it would you not join? How odd if you wouldn't.
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No no, this is my decision. Im not sure that shes totally against it either, I just know she doesnt like the idea. Im not going to NOT rush because shes against it. I guess my concern is 2 issues:
1. I dont want to be forced to do anything against my own morals that would endanger my relationship with my girlfriend. Sounds crazy, but I really dont know what to expect. I've never pledged before...
2. If its gonna be really hard, I want to have a heads up. And why its gonna be hard.
I really appreciate everyones input... I would still like to get peoples experiances if your willign to share!
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