dating a frat boy
hi everyone, i just wanted to ask a quick question about dating a frat boy...i'm new to the sorority scene.
at the end of last semester i "dated" a frat boy, a fellow frosh, for about 6 weeks and met his family when they came to visit, we were hot and heavy for those few weeks- seeing each other most days, going to sports games together, went on one real dinner date, and met each other friends, going to our formals...
but he's an architect and he joked that between pledging and me his grade would be in shambles (and in the end they did kinda suck)
but now it's summer break and i just wanted to know what frat boys thought about commitment to one girl, and how to go about rejuvenating dating next semester since we won't be in the same dorm building anymore, and if i should say something along the lines of "i've always had a good time hanging out with you, and wanted to know what you think of dating exclusively, and if we're seeing each other so much again this semester that it does affect your grades...just let me know" ? and any other tapes on how to deal with the hyper socialization of constant mixers, pertying, etc. how often is good to see each other without becoming attached at the hip?
thanks!
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