Cautiously dipping a toe in here...

[dukemama]

Alphafrog and Heather --

I didn't mention in my previous post that the sister who approached me at the reunion was a member of a sorority that actually blackballed me when I rushed sophomore year. She was a junior that year and I'm surprised that she didn't remember that. Needless to say, I will never pursue AI status with them.

Alphafrog, I inferred from your message that I may look too desperate, given my past rushing history, to be an AI candidate. Perhaps the fact that I was blackballed from an NPC sorority automatically rules me out anyway. I'll fully admit that a small part of me wants to "redeem" myself, since I am hardly the same person I was in college. However, I'll take your advice to heart and if more people feel the same I'll go the non-collegiate route. As I said before, I have no reservations about becoming a sister in one of those groups.

Thanks ladies!