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Originally Posted by TB411
Hey everyone,
Im pledging for a fraternity this Sunday and Im pretty nervous about it. The reason why Im nervous is because Im a pretty shy guy only when it comes to meeting people. Once I know them, Im quite outgoing. Ive been going to some of the parties and stuff and I met a bunch of the brothers but I havnt talked to them enough to feel as if Im really become friends with them. They know Im pledging and they always seem excited to get a new pledgie. The sisters are also excited as well. However, I still feel like I wont fit in. Does anyone have any advice to give me or if it gets easier after you pledge?
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Generally, yes, once you pledge you'll probably feel more comfortable with the guys in the chapter as you develop relationships with them.
But I'm confused by your terminology. What fraternity is this? Have you already been extended a bid or are you still rushing? Is this a co-ed fraternity or are the "sisters" you speak of a "little sister" group? I'm sorry, I'm just really confused.
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