"I think that traditional chapters have a lot more unity and understanding of eachother than balanced man chapters."
I disagree...but it sounds like my BMP chapter runs differently from yours. We take the BMP seriously, but not 100% by the letter.
As for the reputation that some keep referencing...what reputation is being ruined? Please describe the reputation so I can understand how the BMP is ruining it. My BMP chapter is very selective, our brotherhood is tight, we are leaders all through campus, the women love us and we know how to party, but not get in trouble for it. Is that ruining the SigEp reputation?
I have met a lot of guys through Carlsons and Conclaves, and I have met a far amount of "tools" that are from both traditional and bmp chapters. I have met a lot of awesome brothers from both as well. Why are we competing with each other about which is better?? Men are finding both to be effective or crappy...depending on that particular group of guys at that university. It's as simple as that.
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