Any ideas?

[Betarulz!]

Okay, so strange situation.

I see this girl last wednesday at the bar. I think she's pretty cute, but I was out with my M1 friends and didn't get a chance to go talk to her, b/c she left almost immediately after I got there. However she's a Theta Phi Alpha (I know b/c she was wearing letters), and my roommate's girlfriend is also a Theta Phi (I'll call her Andi).

Well I finally today, a week later, get to talk to Andi in order to figure out who this girl is. We figure it out using Facebook. The girl is a Theta Phi Alpha alum who is two years older than roommate's gf. TPAalum deactivated early, before her senior year, and so didn't spend a whole lot of time with the TPA's in Andi's pledge class b/c Creighton has deferred rush. The two are friends on facebook, but otherwise don't really know each other. TPAalum is single, and at least from her profile, so far so good.

Andi, while she didn't say it in so many words, came across to me as though she's not going to be able to help me out here. I'd like the chance to meet TPAalum. It just seems though like all I have to use is facebook, and that is just totally, totally creepy. Any ideas other than hope to end up at the same spot as this girl?