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Originally Posted by cincy
My question is, how do I know if this is the right thing to do? He is a lot different that other guys I have messed with and i hae never felt this way about anybody else. I am simply tired of waiting to get some, i have passes up I don't know how many guys, but this one feels right.
Any advice?
P.S- I promise you he is a good guy. I wouldn't give up my virginity to some random loser.
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Virgin or untrained, you will never know until you try it. The best you can do is love yourself unlike any other.
And like others have said, please use one form of contraception and one form of barrier.
Look, you know it's going to hurt. So, ummm stretching is a good thing here. You won't really know your "erogenous zones", welp, you just not going to have that this go round. I'd say 3-7 times before your areas are pleasurably heightened. If not say after 10 times, then your "stimulus package" just has to be reached another way... Kinna what floats your boat kinna thing...
Here is an expressive place that might assist you...
I wouldn't recommend toys at this time--like the Durex Ring, it sounds like he may be unsure of the potency of his equipment, these things don't come with manuals, etc.
Just enjoy yourself with this person. The key is, if you can find intimacy with another person without touching or intercourse, you have a special thing...
Try to have an enriching experience. If your psyche is hurt, then you will know.
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