So...do you think it's possible to be in love with 2 people?

newbie · #1 06-15-2001, 04:58 PM

I was just talking on AIM with someone, and we were debating whether it's possible to love 2 people at the same time. Do you think it is? I personally don't. But that's just my opinion. I just think that one would be extreme lust (like falling hard for someone), and the other one could possibly be real love. Or, both could be extreme lust--but the person just can't tell.

So, what do you think?

newbie · #2 06-15-2001, 05:22 PM

Alright another question--which is greater...unconditional love or "being in love" ????

I really am not totally for sure.

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amycat412 · #3 06-15-2001, 05:47 PM

unconditional love is greater, absolutely. it is there, always, unconditionally, whereas the 'being in love' feeling can come and go over the course of a long relationship.

I am not sure if it is possible to be in love with two people at the same time. I've thought I was before, but one of them was more of an unconditional love thing--and I still feel that way about him and he me even though we've been broken up for a long time, we talk every once in awhile and it just clicks and nothing the other person does can make us hate them, its a bond and a connection we share. The one I was in love with at the time--history. Unconditional love is MUCH stronger.