Starting a New Fraternity or Sorority Chapter - Page 4

amIblue? · #46 10-24-2011, 01:30 PM

Also, I think Mystic Cat IS in your lane.

At least, he's not NPC.

taudelt1910 · #47 10-24-2011, 01:32 PM

Still all the hate AlphaFrog....I thought you were enjoying your ice cream.

I don't know why you feel you have to put me in my place on EVERY post. Is it just to prove you are smart? Ok, YOU are clearly THE Greek Life Expert. would you like a cash award?

knight_shadow · #48 10-24-2011, 01:34 PM

This thread went in the direction that we all thought it would lol

AlphaFrog · #49 10-24-2011, 01:40 PM

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This thread went in the direction that we all thought it would lol

Imagine that.

And LOL about me being a Greek Life expert. Luckily, I don't advertise myself as one. That doesn't mean that I fell off the GC turnip truck yesterday, though.

MysticCat · #50 10-24-2011, 01:41 PM

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See, here you are incorrect. NIC's don't require there to be an IFC on campus in order to expand, if two NPC groups exist on a campus, they do. So that gives the men's groups more leeway in expansion.

I'm well aware of this, and I didn't say otherwise. I didn't mention the NIC IFCs. I said that all Greek groups have to deal with school administrations. That's true to some extent even for unrecognized chapters. (Though it's my understanding that what you say is not true of all NIC member orgs.)

But the bottom line is that anyone interested in starting a chapter of any org should find our first what their school's position would be.

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Originally Posted by amIblue?

Also, I think Mystic Cat IS in your lane.

Not quite. We're not NIC, but on some campuses, we are IFC. But as noted, I didn't say anything about either.

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Originally Posted by knight_shadow

This thread went in the direction that we all thought it would lol

Yep.

taudelt1910 · #51 10-24-2011, 01:52 PM

You guys are all jumping down my throat for no reason. And really, I don't know what your goal was except to take this thread to this place where it is.

So I was told to "shut up" so I should sit in my lane. Just because I was a Past President of an NIC group doesn't mean my head was in the sand when dealing with other fraternities or sororities. The several tradegroups interact on a National Level (some such as NALFO, NPHC and NIC even overlap..most NALFO & NPHC fraternities are cross-members in the NIC), and in fact some NPC Executive Directors have even joined the FEA, the Fraternity Executives Association. The reason I, in the hypothetical example, suggested a non-NPC group if the NPC groups weren't ready for extension of a new organization is because a non-NPC group wouldn't typically (typically now, not in all circumstances), have to go through Panhellenic to get recognized. Those Sororities also offer a valid sorority experience with rituals and traditions as old as many of the NPC organizations.

I did say I have experience in Greek Life, I don't think that's a bad thing. I also don't think that it would be bad for you guys to share your input or experiences.

"Good luck with your expansion efforts?" I am not doing this as a way to promote my organization, just as a way to help people out who want to start a new group.

The reason I say, DON'T go to the school first is because the stock answer for many campuses when it comes to starting a Greek system is "no." So unless you have the interested group of students and some national backing behind you, it is very easy for a new campus administrator to brush off a student that goes to see them.

Yea, I put my fraternity email out on the other thread link. I'll live with the consequences.

No one is saying anyone fell off the turnip truck. However, Alpha Frog saying a man can't advise about sorority issues, is tantamount to reverse sexism. Does that mean that NPC groups don't allow male faculty advisers for their chapters? Just saying, that is the road it seems you guys are traveling down. I know several men who advise NPC groups.

There is a lot of similarity that exists, whether you choose to believe it or not, between the different Greek Organizations that are out there, and what those organizations have to deal with in regards to campus politics in order to get their chapter on campus.

AlphaFrog · #52 10-24-2011, 02:04 PM

I never told you to "shut up". That would be very un-classy of me. Glad to see I matter so much to you though.

And Greeks are allowed to be sexist...we have our own Code of Law that says so.

amIblue? · #53 10-24-2011, 02:14 PM

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I never told you to "shut up". That would be very un-classy of me. Glad to see I matter so much to you though.

No, that would be me - explaining stay in your lane when you don't know what you're talking about. So much for keeping it Kappa Klassy.

taudelt1910 · #54 10-24-2011, 02:18 PM

Wow, you guys are just crossing the line all over the place, and once again ignoring the substance of what I was saying. But, then again, I guess sometimes having substance as opposed to being superficial is hard for some people.

And yes Kappa, that was rude.

amIblue? · #55 10-24-2011, 02:22 PM

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And yes Kappa, that was rude

Just wanted to see if you could tell the difference, as up until this point, you've taken disagreement as rudeness. I'll edit it out now.

AlphaFrog · #56 10-24-2011, 02:31 PM

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No, that would be me - explaining stay in your lane when you don't know what you're talking about. So much for keeping it Kappa Klassy.

Oh, heck...I was just being flippant. I'm sure a quick search here on my name would bring up my fair share of "shut ups".

Because here's the thing about substance vs. superficial here...it's a messageboard...it ain't that serious. At present, it's serving as a nice procrastination from doing payroll.

PhoenixAzul · #57 10-24-2011, 02:34 PM

As a little note:

"Reverse ____ism". There is no reverse racism/sexism/sizeism/ageism. Only racism/sexism/sizeism/ageism/____ism.

(Also as another note of clarification and delineation: This TauDelt is not a member of the Tau Delta that is so near and dear to my heart...we're still hanging out in the Quiet Peaceful Village and we're still for women)

amIblue? · #58 10-24-2011, 02:52 PM

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Because here's the thing about substance vs. superficial here...it's a messageboard...it ain't that serious. At present, it's serving as a nice procrastination from doing payroll.

I know right? I don't have payroll to do, but I got plenty of drudgery to do.

MysticCat · #59 10-24-2011, 03:18 PM

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Originally Posted by taudelt1910

No one is saying anyone fell off the turnip truck. However, Alpha Frog saying a man can't advise about sorority issues, is tantamount to reverse sexism. Does that mean that NPC groups don't allow male faculty advisers for their chapters? Just saying, that is the road it seems you guys are traveling down. I know several men who advise NPC groups.

Except as far as I can tell, that's not what she has said. What she and others have said is that those without direct, first-hand experience in how NPC orgs work shouldn't be offering advice on how they work. Observation doesn't count as direct, first-hand experience. Seems pretty reasonable to me.

Meanwhile, I'm not a member of an NPHC org. But I think my time on GreekChat has given me a pretty good idea of how members of NPHC orgs would react if someone not NPHC offered advice on joining or starting a chapter of their orgs.

AlphaFrog · #60 10-24-2011, 03:34 PM

Oh hell, at this point I'd probably argue that Betty Crocker left a Delta Zeta badge on the moon while reciting Sigma Kappa secrets from a Dr. Suess book and eating Green Bean Casserole just to get his goat. It's pretty much become my raison de filetage.

FWIW, we had a male advisor who was KA Order and worked in the GL Office that probably knew the Green Book better than anyone on campus. I would trust him to give advice on NPC Expansions.