Big Girl Shout Out

PM_Mama00 · #1 06-07-2002, 12:50 PM

UF_Pike is looking for a nice girl. Complaining that all the girls he meets are great looking but are all doped up. And yes, he named which sororities he's dated from. Well, I told him to look at Phi Mus...we're nice girls. This is what he said:
And in no offense, the PHI MU's at UF average weight is about 150 pounds. While the average height is about 5'6. For a girl thats not very attarctive, according to most guys here. Their chapter might even cease to exist due to them not being able to get pledges. They are often reffered to as " The Phi Mooooooos". This is only at the Univ. Of Florida though, i met some from University of Georgia and they were cute and fun to hang out with.
Now, I'm a big girl, but I've had boyfriends, and I've dated a few guys. These were cute guys too. So, UF_Pike gave me the motivation to create this threat....Big Girl Shout Out. If your a big girl, let's hear it. If your cool with a guy or girl bein big, let's hear it. I used to hate bein a big girl, and it was cuz of jerks like UF_Pike. But then I finally realized that people are gona like me for my personality, and those who didn't can go screw themselves.

Dionysus · #2 06-07-2002, 01:24 PM

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Originally posted by PM_Mama00
If your cool with a guy or girl bein big, let's hear it. I used to hate bein a big girl, and it was cuz of jerks like UF_Pike. But then I finally realized that people are gona like me for my personality, and those who didn't can go screw themselves.

I'm glad someone finally brought this up.

I am not big, but I am totally cool with those who are. I try not to judge people by outward appearance, especially something like weight. Also, I do not believe that heavy=unattractive and thin=attractive. It ALL depends on how someone CARRIES themselves.

IMO I find it very appalling on how mainstream culture emphasizes thiness in FEMALES. Come on it's 2002! It's attitudes like that hold us back as women. And, it is not going to change until someone puts their foot down.

Do NOT listen to him!

TrojanGirl · #3 06-07-2002, 01:35 PM

I am 5'10, 230 pounds and PROUD of it!

But I get sick of fat comments from SOME college age guys (and not all of them greek) Size, like age is nothing but a number.

TG

Honeykiss1974 · #4 06-07-2002, 02:26 PM

Ok, ladies I had to chime in because what kills me is our socieity that puts TONS of pressure on women to conform to what the mainstream THINKS is beautiful (slim, blonde, etc. ).....but yet, for some reason it is ok for men to go around looking like "who did it and why"......

(big gut, out of shape,etc.)

WHAT'S GOOD FOR THE GOOSE IS GOOD FOR THE GANDER!!

LeslieAGD · #5 06-07-2002, 02:55 PM

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Originally posted by PM_Mama00
And in no offense, the PHI MU's at UF average weight is about 150 pounds. While the average height is about 5'6.

I don't consider 150 pounds to be heavy. There are plenty of people who are over 150 and a lot of their weight is made up of muscle. Like Dionysus said, it's about how you carry yourself. It shouldn't be about how much someone weighs, but whether they're healthy and feel good about themself.

Corbin Dallas · #6 06-07-2002, 04:13 PM

i've seen some bigger girls that i thought were beautiful, and i've seen some girls with great bodies that i wouldn't touch with a 10 foot pole, cause they look like they got hit by the ugly stick. also, attitude is everything. i know a lady who has always been fairly big, but she ALWAYS had a boyfriend growing up, sometimes they were practically lining up at the door.

personally, there's a wide range of sizes and body types of girls that i find attractive. it depends on the case by case basis.

Skchickie · #7 06-07-2002, 04:34 PM

I struggled with my weight when I was smaller, and I'm still not underweight, but I'm not overweight either... I'm perfect for my body type... But I have always had crushes and fallen for bigger guys... I LOVE CHUBBY GUYS! :-)

lifesaver · #8 06-07-2002, 05:55 PM

One of my closest friends is a "full figured gal" we call her "Pretty Plus" because thats the dept at Sears she used to have to get her clothes as a kid wehen her mom would take her there. lol.

She is full of life and zest, beautiful, and a CPA...at 23.

I also think Jill Brown is beautiful.

Keep on keepin it real....

DeltAlum · #9 06-07-2002, 06:24 PM

I just ran across a "big" (not fat by any means) girl that I knew in High School on Classmates.com.

She was what we might call "Big boned," but damn, did she have a sexy way about her. And very pretty.

TigerGirl52 · #10 06-07-2002, 06:36 PM

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Originally posted by Skchickie
But I have always had crushes and fallen for bigger guys... I LOVE CHUBBY GUYS! :-)

Me too!! Me too!! I guess I just have a thing for big ol' teddy bears. I like some meat on my man's bones!!!!

Allison

Ideal08 · #11 06-07-2002, 06:45 PM

I'm a big girl and I'm BEAUTIFUL!!!

I think I like this thread!! Go 'head, PM_Mama!! My thing is, everyone has preferences. Dudes don't like it, that's cool. Y'all know what Chris Rock said about big girls.... and I have no comment.

[Disclaimer: I don't think it's ok to be unhealthy, we should all (SKINNY PEEPS INCLUDED) be mindful of our health!]

BearyCuteAPhi · #12 06-07-2002, 07:59 PM

Ideal, you're right...everyone has their own taste, however, that does not give anyone the right to put people down. If you don't like someone just because of their looks keep it to yourself, don't be mean.

Ronnie

equeen · #13 06-08-2002, 01:10 AM

What I find interesting is that a size ten (ten!) is more and more the cut-off for being considered full-figured.

That's funny to me - I'm larger around the hips than I am in the bust - below the waist I'm full figured, above the waist, I could be Twiggy. Well, perhaps the difference isn't quite that dramatic, but you get the picture.

So here I am, walking through some clothing establishment, that rarely if ever have slacks or skirts at size 10, let alone higher. What I'm looking for is blouses - I can wear a medium, even a small sometimes. And the sales girl is all rude, asking me if she can help, eyeing me up and down as if I'm beyond all help.

*mutter* I just remembered why I hate shopping at place that think they're all that, but really aren't.....!

Serenity · #14 06-08-2002, 07:50 AM

Oh please, everyone knows bigger is better.

kddani · #15 06-08-2002, 07:59 AM

EQueen- i feel your pain!
I'm a size 10 on bottoms and a small or medium on top. But i have boobs, so that doesn't help either!
But size 10 isn't necessarily a large size though.
Clothing makers don't help things at all- my roommate is very thin and couldn't fit into a size 9 in the juniors department one time (in normal clothes, she wears like a 4).
And btw- 150 pounds is NOT overweight. I'm 5'7" and around 145. Go look at my picture in the "what do we look like" thread.. I don't look "fat", i think i look pretty damn good. I would love to be in better shape, but in no way am i fat! I never have a problem getting guys, especially fraternity guys! I'm not full figured, i'm curvy and have a woman's body.
A woman's body isn't supposed to look like a board. I have boobs, i have ass, and i have hips. And i'm proud of it.
And UF-Pike, if you did make those comments, wait about 15 years. Chances are your future wife will be around 150 pounds or more, no matter what she may weight when you get married. Women gain weight as they age, especially when they have kids.