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Old 07-28-2008, 01:09 PM
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Another Fall '07 Recruitment Thread---Midwestern University

Hello, All! I've been a lurker here for quite the while (it helps me through long, unproductive days at work) and I finally registered and I wanted to share in all the wonderful recruitment thread fun(Unless ya'll don't want to hear it, in which case let me know, until then I'll post away), since I've learned so much(Southern recruitment is so Different from ours!) and have been so entertained...
I'll be posting the first installment in the story soon(today hopefully), but I thought to start it out I'd give you the background story.

Ok, I attend a mid-size state university in the Midwest. Greek Life here is VERY active, with 11 NPC sororities and 12 IFC fraternities (As well several NPHC groups). Last Fall(2007), I was an incoming freshman and I knew I wanted to go Greek.
I think it's important for me to note that, I'm the first in my immediate family to attend university, let alone go Greek, so I didn't know anything going in.

Also, the timeline here is important, I think. My schools Formal recruitment takes place in the fall, but it isn't before school...it's during! Like, classes start in late august and formal takes place Mid- to Late September. The weekend before classes is welcome back! with booths to meet all the RSO, including a Meet the Greeks-type booth. So along with that and the active social scene, I had met a lot of sorority girls before recruitment(My best friend's older brother is in a Fraternity here, and that's pretty much the only place we'd go out to, since we knew alot of the guys already and they looked out for us not to get in trouble)

So...I'm naming my groups after famous royal mistresses(i'm a history geek and they are some of the most interesting people ) Here they are...
Nell Gwynne
Louise de Kérouaille
Bessie Blount
Camilla Parker Bowles
Diane De Poitiers
Barbara Villiers
Madame De Pompadour
Maria Walewska
Lola Montez
Madame Du Barry
Alice Keppel
So...sorry for the long introductory post. But I'm working on the beginning of the Actual story.

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Old 07-28-2008, 04:41 PM
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What interesting code names! I can't wait to hear your story!
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Old 07-29-2008, 10:36 AM
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What I thought(and experienced) going it...

I realized I never told ya'll what I knew about the groups going into recruitment. I am going to strive to be very honest...so uh...here it goes.

Barbara Villiers- I had heard that these girls didn't have a strong sisterhood on the whole. Like older members(seniors) wouldn't hang out with newer members(sophomores) and they can be very divided, as a house.
Madame De Pompadour-Again a group I knew very little about, except that they were a smaller house.
Nell Gwynne--I don't think I knew anything about these girls going in. I had actually met a couple of the girls in this group(at the fraternity i hung out at) without even knowing it! This group was also known the be on the rise, so to speak on campus; they were bringing there numbers up dramatically and a lot of groups wanted to do things with them.
Camilla Parker Bowles-Oh, Camilla Parker Bowles....I can genuinely say these girls are nice, but exceedingly awkward...they have a lot of girls who don't seem as if they'd be in a sorority, but they have one of the strongest sisterhoods on our campus.
Madame Du Barry-These are the blonds with lots makeup, money, and tan...They are what one of my guy friends called "the girls you party with, but not the marrying kind". I met some very nice girls from this group, pre-recruitment, but they were a little dim, which turned me off. However, one of my very good friends "Sara" wanted this house very badly.
Alice Keppel- These girls I knew to be very down to earth and fun, but not very active and they tend to be partiers. A favorite teacher from my hometown had a daughter here, so they recruited me really hard.
Bessie Blount-Another group I knew only a little about. A smaller group.
Maria Walewska-Yet another group where I went in a little blind...I didn't know what to expect.
Lola Montez-I didn't start out knowing much, except that these girls have a lot of in-fighting and it's very public. Which is sad 'cause I know some of the most fun girls from here now, but going into recruitment, their reputation was very off-putting.
Diane De Poitiers-This group is notoriously competitive and close-knit.
Louise De Kerouaille- This is a group that a lot of the fraternities want to be with...the girls are very pretty, but like the Du Barrys they are all very similar in looks, except Brunette and this is a fact they are proud of. I met a couple of them, pre-recruitment, but they were Gamma Chi's so I didn't see them during...They have a reputation for being b****y to other girls...and I witnessed some of that first hand at some parties...so that's a little awkward.
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Old 07-29-2008, 02:06 PM
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First Day!

Ok, so our recruitment schedule goes as follows.
Monday Night-Orientation…this is where we meet our Gamma Chi’s and Our Gamma Chi groups :0)
Friday-Open Houses(each sorority was in a classroom in an academic building). This is the longest day. I think we spent 20-30 in each house with, maybe 5-10 minutes in between, with a dinner break. You get to meet with each house
Saturday and Sunday-House Tours-I think these days you can go back to up to 9 houses and you split them however you want, either 6/3 or 5/4,* This works because we have partially structured recruitment, so that you have to go to all the houses you’re invited to, but it’s up to PNM’s to decide how long they want to stay
Monday- This is Break Day. My Gamma Chi’s had us all get together for dinner, it was nice
Tuesday-Philanthropy Day, you can go back to up to 6 Houses
Wednesday-Sisterhood Day, this is like Philanthropy(6 houses again), but it showcases the chapters as a whole. What they do together, their social activities, how active they are on campus, etc.[/font]
Thursday- Pref! Up to 3 houses this night.[/font]

The 1st day of recruitment….yikes! I was so rushed! I had to work in the morning(recruitment started at 12) and I arranged to leave early but…I still didn’t have as much time to make myself cute as I would have liked….A lot of this day was a blur(except some real awkward moments), including what I wore, but I’ll try my best.
I was lucky when I went through to have a few friends going through with me, but none of them were in my GX group, so I usually wouldn’t see them until much later and they didn’t really color my opinions.

Barbara Villiers-I’ll be honest…I don’t know what happened here. Like, it was the first group…and I was still having a hard time trying to sort everyone’s letters out : / Luckily my Gamma Chi gave us all sheets with all the greek letters on them

Madame De Pompadour-I don’t think the game here went as smoothly as they would have liked. But they were pretty friendly overall

Nell Gwynne- These girls were all dressed alike…not in a creepy way, but like in t-shirts with our school name alternating in their colors and the flip-flops with their letters on. We played two games here and I saw the girl that I loved from the fraternity house! I was so surprised to see her! Overall- I think this party went pretty well

Camilla Parker Bowles- Shocker! As I sat down and started talking with one sisters, I noticed a girl that I knew from competing against her in high school…she was a couple years older, but it still made me real happy to see her. Unfortunately, they had the worse getting to know you game(ie, I didn’t really get to know anyone)…and I noticed that unlike the other chapters they hadn’t brought any thing, like boards or decorations to brighten up the classroom.

Madame Du Barry- I knew almost right away, I didn’t belong here. Anyway, we started out with a game very much like the one from CPB, and their President, although super bubble, came across as airheaded, because she had trouble explaining the game (and we were the third group). So after that, we split into small groups of like 8…and I just sat there the whole time thinking “when will this end?” I’m pretty sure the only thing they talked about was their Tiffany jewelry and nose jobs. Which, don’t get me wrong, I like Tiffany, but I don’t really think it’s the best way to showcase your group. I also feel that when rushing…you can probably leave your purse in a pile and not have it glued to your arm…I didn’t really care about their LV bags, I was trying to gage if these were my future sisters, not if they could dress well. Plus, the rusher I was paired with kinda kept looking at me with her mouth hanging open when I would talk

Alice Keppel-I don’t remember much. I just knew girls here.

Bessie Blount- Ok, so yes, this was a smaller chapter…but I don’t think Panhel could have put them in a smaller room that would have made moving around anymore awkward…I really didn’t like this game, but I did like the girls, even if their vibe came across as a little desperate

Maria Walewska-Wow. I just loved it here. The girl I was initially paired with asked my major, then introduced me to a sister with the same one and I spent the whole time chatting with her. She wrote down some suggestions for classes/professors for me to take and it was just great!

Lola Montez- The girl here didn’t talk much…like she just wasn’t into me or recruitment or whatever, so I don’t think I made much of an impression.

Diane De Poitiers-I felt grossly uncomfortable here. I don’t know that I wasn’t imagining it, but one of the girls kept giving me the dirtiest look. I spent a lot of time looking over my shoulder and feeling a little paranoid and very uncomfortable.

Louise De Kerouaille-Ugh. I guess I put my foot in my mouth here…but I don’t care, because…well, I’ll just tell ya’ll what happened. We walk in, their president talks to us, then we break into groups. Once in our groups, we play this game, where be basically share something we love and then a pet peeve. So I say, “I don’t like when people are needlessly ignorant, like there’s no reason to be an adult and not be aware of who the president and vice president are”. I mean really, there is no reason not to know that! So the girls go “oh”…then a couple seconds later, the girl to my right(a girl in the chapter, not a PNM), goes “So, who is the vice president?” I think that’s enough said.

So at the end of the night, I sat down with my Gamma Chi, and did my Rankings. The only one that mattered were those I cut so, they aren’t really in an order on #1. They were as follows

1.Nell Gwynn, Barbara Villiers, Maria Walewska, Bessie Blount, Alice Keppel, Diane De Poitiers, Lola Montez, Madame Du Pompadour, Louise de Kerouaille
2. Camilla Parker Bowles
3.Madame Du Barry

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Old 07-29-2008, 03:16 PM
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I cant believe they were walking around with their purses, talking about tiffany's, and talking about their nose jobs. <---Those are my pet peeves lol.
Yea...it made for an awkward first impression...I mean some girls were in their element, but not me so much.
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Old 07-29-2008, 04:31 PM
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Hahaha I love your pet peeve about being needlessly ignorant. I agree! There is no reason to not know the names of the President and Vice President. I mean, come on, these girls are in college!!!
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Old 07-30-2008, 07:03 PM
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Bessie Blount- Ok, so yes, this was a smaller chapter…but I don’t think Panhel could have put them in a smaller room that would have made moving around anymore awkward…I really didn’t like this game, but I did like the girls, even if their vibe came across as a little desperate

Were some of the chapters in houses and others in suites/rooms?
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Old 07-31-2008, 09:09 AM
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Louise De Kerouaille-Ugh. I guess I put my foot in my mouth here…but I don’t care, because…well, I’ll just tell ya’ll what happened. We walk in, their president talks to us, then we break into groups. Once in our groups, we play this game, where be basically share something we love and then a pet peeve. So I say, “I don’t like when people are needlessly ignorant, like there’s no reason to be an adult and not be aware of who the president and vice president are”. I mean really, there is no reason not to know that! So the girls go “oh”…then a couple seconds later, the girl to my right(a girl in the chapter, not a PNM), goes “So, who is the vice president?” I think that’s enough said.
OMG! I can't believe she did that. Like right after you said "this is a pet peeve of mine".
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Old 07-31-2008, 10:17 AM
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update???
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Old 07-31-2008, 02:34 PM
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Sorry. I'm working on it...one of my sisters fathers passed away and we've been dealing with that.
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Old 07-31-2008, 09:00 PM
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Note to PNMs:

The last post is why sisterhood is importent...and, if you find the right fit...forever sisterhood.
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Old 08-01-2008, 12:19 AM
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candydelish,
please give our sympathies to your sister and her family.
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Old 08-01-2008, 09:37 PM
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Ok, Everyone...I really apologize for leaving you hanging, I really started with the best of intentions to update really quickly...then you know, tragedy strikes. So, I'm going to update sometime this weekend, since I should have time, now that the funeral is over. I apologize to all you greekchatters who are taking the time to read this, but I know you understand my need to be supportive of my pledge sister and her family at this time. And thank you for all the well-wishes.
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Old 08-01-2008, 10:13 PM
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Ok, Everyone...I really apologize for leaving you hanging, I really started with the best of intentions to update really quickly...then you know, tragedy strikes. So, I'm going to update sometime this weekend, since I should have time, now that the funeral is over. I apologize to all you greekchatters who are taking the time to read this, but I know you understand my need to be supportive of my pledge sister and her family at this time. And thank you for all the well-wishes.
Yes, supporting sisters = more important than finishing a rush thread on GC.
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Old 08-01-2008, 10:16 PM
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Yes, supporting sisters = more important than finishing a rush thread on GC.
Agreed - please, take your time and be there as much as you can for your sister (as you have been doing).
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