Am I wrong if......

[SeriousSigma22]

Sorhor Bluereign,

Girl, you not for stepping to your; however, I don' want to see you on NBC4 @4:00.

Am I wrong for giving the phone to my cat when the same telemarketer keeps calling my house about getting new windows. I don't need new windows! Their always calling around 6:30 to 7:00 p.m. What ever happened to the do not call registry? I signed up but they still keep calling!


Serioussigma22

[whiteandblack]

hell no! I signed up (e-mailed, wrote, called) for that do not call registry myself, but those dayum telemarketers still call!

[BlueReign]

I still get calls too! But I have to admit that it has gotten a LOT better.

Am I wrong if I straight up tell people that I don't like them. I really, really, REALLY try hard to like something in everybody so you gotta be one messed up individual for me to say that I don't like you. I can't smile in somebody's face and pretend anymore!!!!!

[SeriousSigma22]

Sorhor,

That's too funny! Hey it's always better to tell the truth!

Am I wrong for sitting around doing absolutely nothing but having a good time for the summer of 2006. I'm really screening my phone calls and email!

Serioussigma22

[Educatingblue]

Am I wrong if I ask unmarried friends what form of birthcontrol they are planning on taking after their 2nd out of wedlock child?

Am I wrong if I choose not to go to inlaws homes who refuse to clean?

Am I wrong if I go through my roster before schools starts and move the bad behind kids to the new teachers' classrooms

[BlueReign]

Originally Posted by Educatingblue

Am I wrong if I ask unmarried friends what form of birthcontrol they are planning on taking after their 2nd out of wedlock child?

Am I wrong if I choose not to go to inlaws homes who refuse to clean?

Am I wrong if I go through my roster before schools starts and move the bad behind kids to the new teachers' classrooms

Soror, now you know you are wrong for that third statement!

[1browngirl]

Am i wrong if I've already planned a mental health day (or two) for August and the month just started?

[rhoyaltempest]

Am I wrong for wanting my father-in-law (who's been staying with us for the past week) to go home so I can relax and walk around my house au naturel?

[PearlRuby]

Originally Posted by rhoyaltempest

Am I wrong for wanting my father-in-law (who's been staying with us for the past week) to go home so I can relax and walk around my house au naturel?

[PhDiva]

Originally Posted by rhoyaltempest

Am I wrong for wanting my father-in-law (who's been staying with us for the past week) to go home so I can relax and walk around my house au naturel?

All I have to do is insert *mother-in-law* and we're right there, soror. But my MIL has been with us since April - love her but she gotta go home. She keeps praying for a grandchild - we're new newlyweds - but I can't let go *if you know what I mean* with my MIL down the hall. LOL

[rhoyaltempest]

Originally Posted by PhDiva

All I have to do is insert *mother-in-law* and we're right there, soror. But my MIL has been with us since April - love her but she gotta go home. She keeps praying for a grandchild - we're new newlyweds - but I can't let go *if you know what I mean* with my MIL down the hall. LOL

I know what you mean soror. And on another note...don't let anyone pressure you into having children so soon after the start of your marriage, unless it's something that you and your husband want to do. In-laws can be very persistent about this but don't let them get their way; it's not about them. From what I have seen, children change everything and not everyone's marriage is ready for them so soon. I've been married for 3 years now and my husband and I are just now talking about starting a family. Marriage is a lot of work and I really value these 3 years that my husband and I have spent just stabilizing it and growing together.

[PhDiva]

Originally Posted by rhoyaltempest

I know what you mean soror. And on another note...don't let anyone pressure you into having children so soon after the start of your marriage, unless it's something that you and your husband want to do. In-laws can be very persistent about this but don't let them get their way; it's not about them. From what I have seen, children change everything and not everyone's marriage is ready for them so soon. I've been married for 3 years now and my husband and I are just now talking about starting a family. Marriage is a lot of work and I really value these 3 years that my husband and I have spent just stabilizing it and growing together.

Thanks soror but we're not receiving pressure so much as we both recognize that we aren't exactly spring chickens (early 40's and mid 30s) and we knew straight-away after getting married that starting a family soon was a priority. We lived together for almost 2 years before we got married and though marriage does change the nature of any relationship, I think we have a pretty good handle on how difficult it can be sometimes (Lord knows I do). I just want my space back so I can freely roam so we can start our tribe.

[1908Revelations]

Am I wrong if my voicemail chooses to talk to my friends b/c they made NO plans for MY birthday? Bastids!!

[BlueReign]

Originally Posted by 1908Revelations

Am I wrong if my voicemail chooses to talk to my friends b/c they made NO plans for MY birthday? Bastids!!

No you are not wrong girl. My "friends" have been talking to my voicemail practically all summer. And don't speak of my birthday cause nobody ever remembers anyway.

[1908Revelations]

Originally Posted by BlueReign

No you are not wrong girl. My "friends" have been talking to my voicemail practically all summer. And don't speak of my birthday cause nobody ever remembers anyway.

Thanks! You should read the Open letter I wrote in the Delta forum. So you got a case of 'Sorryfrienditis' too