Confessions...

[GodlyAspiringDr]

Originally Posted by BabyBlue91

I just got an email from my last crush (before I started dating DH). We used to work for the same company and had not spoken in about three years. He has since moved south to be with family. What is going on?

The devil...

Girl, Tell him, he's a liar!

[kiml122]

Originally Posted by BabyBlue91

I've PM'd you!

Check your PM

[BellaSF]

Whenever I meet a guy I don't like or change my mind about a guy I'm dating to get rid of him I pretend that I'm crazy. I will laugh hysterically for no reason at all, call repeatedly and talk about dumb stuff &/or tell them I'm Lucifer and start to roar(lol). I may even give them the rejection hotline number if I'm in a different state.

[Kamryn]

My confessions…

I think I may be single for the rest of my life… Seriously, I have never seen a successful relationship/marriage in my lifetime. I’ve lost faith in the idea of having a family with a father in the house. The only thing that can restore that faith is my faith that God can make this happen in my life regardless of what I’ve seen. That would be a MIRACLE! Sometimes it’s hard for me to walk by faith and not by sight. Needless to say, all of the men in my life (family and friends) have cheated to the point that it has ruined their marriages/relationships. So it’s hard for me to believe that I would be any different. I also think that I wouldn’t know how to be a wife with a husband because I’m too independent, like the women in my life. As much as I want to have a family, I sometimes feel that it would be best that I save someone from having to deal with my own insecurities based on my loved ones experiences. When you’ve never seen a successful relationship your ENTIRE life, have cousins and siblings popping up out of nowhere, and witnessed cheating and cheaters being caught from the time you were young enough to remember; I guess it can have an effect on you.

[KAPPAtivating]

Originally Posted by Kamryn

My confessions…

I think I may be single for the rest of my life… Seriously, I have never seen a successful relationship/marriage in my lifetime. I’ve lost faith in the idea of having a family with a father in the house. The only thing that can restore that faith is my faith that God can make this happen in my life regardless of what I’ve seen. That would be a MIRACLE! Sometimes it’s hard for me to walk by faith and not by sight. Needless to say, all of the men in my life (family and friends) have cheated to the point that it has ruined their marriages/relationships. So it’s hard for me to believe that I would be any different. I also think that I wouldn’t know how to be a wife with a husband because I’m too independent, like the women in my life. As much as I want to have a family, I sometimes feel that it would be best that I save someone from having to deal with my own insecurities based on my loved ones experiences. When you’ve never seen a successful relationship your ENTIRE life, have cousins and siblings popping up out of nowhere, and witnessed cheating and cheaters being caught from the time you were young enough to remember; I guess it can have an effect on you.

^^^I have had similar situations. Very few people in my families have successful relationships or marriages. As a man, I come from a LONG line of cheating men, but I recognize the generational curse. I seriously pray on a regular basis to allow me to break this cycle. In order to keep from following in the same path, I have chosen to be single (for right now) because I haven't met the right woman yet. Don't downplay your independence because some men find independence sexy. I am one who does. It is okay to be independent, but the factor is being able to negotiate!

[Kamryn]

While I’m in the confessing mood, I’ll add something else…

I had a class a few years ago that I was struggling in. At the end of the semester I was border-line of a B- and C+ my professor offered me a higher grade in exchange for sex. I said no, and I ended up with a C-. Still think about it years later…especially when I look at my transcripts. I should have I should have reported his nasty @$$. Always wish I did. I remember hearing rumors about him doing that to other girls, and some of them actually admitted it. I wouldn’t even think about it. Instead, I left it alone, stayed silent, and kept my C-. He should have been fired! I wish I reported him.

[DSTdimepiece]

You know I like you, but I don't know if I can deal with all the other chicks who give blatant attention. Some are cool, but some are down right audacious and I would be embarassed to conduct myself in such a manner ESPECIALLY in a church setting.

[Senusret I]

Bumping from the brink of oblivion....

I confess:

• I tried to duck walk once and I fell. No, not THAT duck walk, the other one.
• I HATED the Deltas at my school when I was a Freshman/Sophomore. Then all my friends pledged and it was cool.
• I couldn't STAND any Alphas I had met prior to college.
• I've told someone I loved them and didn't mean it.

[I.A.S.K.]

1. He loves me more than I love him.
2. They dont understand why & where I wanna go (in life)
3. Someone who is very close to me (known her for forever) just cannot manage to keep her mouth closed about my business, but would kill me if I told hers and I never do tell hers.
4. I dont really care for my new boss. I mean bossy pays me less than my old boss and bossy is way more strict. Boss basically said i could care less if you are trying to move into your deceased gdads house and all of your clothes got lost by luggage people and you have acne....you better be here on time dressed to kill and have on make-up. I dont mind having my appearance on point all the time, actually I like it, but how do you admonish a person on their first day when its been explained that there is a situation going on. How do you tell me "being a sloppy broad (didnt exactly say these words but I got the message) may just be your style and thats fine, but I cant work with that so you need to evaluate if this is right for you" WTH? I explained the situation going on BEFORE you hired me...Im very well qualified all of your people loved me, but you didnt have to hire me and if i didnt want the job I wouldnt have spent more than I'll make in a week buying clothes, shoes, and "makeup" (what little I could find that wouldnt make my face break out) just to come work for you does that not show that ive evaluated the job and want it!
5. I REALLY REALLY REALLY miss him so much. I still havent gotten a chance to even be sad or cry about it. I have to deal with other people's greif and snide remarks about losing him like it doesnt hurt.
6. There is so much more. (and these are supposed to be the best four years of my life! NOT! well not right now)

[naturaldiscretn]

Originally Posted by BellaSF

Whenever I meet a guy I don't like or change my mind about a guy I'm dating to get rid of him I pretend that I'm crazy. I will laugh hysterically for no reason at all, call repeatedly and talk about dumb stuff &/or tell them I'm Lucifer and start to roar(lol). I may even give them the rejection hotline number if I'm in a different state.

Wow, that had me cracking up.


My man hangs out with a certain cultural association and I can't stand this group. They party too much and way too often (under the disguise of doing good things for their people) and their "fundraising" fees are always expensive. Some of the guys are disrespectful, as well. On top of that, some of the women involved in the group have rubbed me the wrong way. Somehow, MY email address, instead of his, got added to their weekly event list and I delete the emails without forwarding them to him or letting him know of the events. *evil laughter* He just thinks the group isn't very active. He doesn't know how much I hate them since I was the one who introduced him to them thinking it would be good for him to get to know others from his particular country. Now I wish I never did.

[Wonderful1908]

My son just turned 11 but I still let hum get the free meal at Denny's for kids 10 and under!

[naturaldiscretn]

Originally Posted by Wonderful1908

My son just turned 11 but I still let hum get the free meal at Denny's for kids 10 and under!

LOL!

[Still BLUTANG]

I confess...

I have a good friend that calls me 3-4 times a day to talk about NOTHING. Most of the time, i put the phone down while she chatters then pick it up 3 minutes later and say "un huh. o.k. well girl its been good talking with you but i've got to go."

[IlovemyAKA]

I prefer when my boyfriend and his sister aren't on speaking terms so I don't have to deal with her or hear her damn opinion about everything. She's an overly opinionated, materialistic b***h & I don't like her.

[BlessedOne04]

I must confess..I would be happy if all my employees quit and were replaced with robots with a pleasant attitudes!!

As if I could be so lucky.