How do Zeta's feel about double membership? - Page 3

TwyceAWhyteRoze · #31 10-31-2005, 10:03 AM

Wow!

I heard about this, but I REALLY did not believe that this was possible.

Are you serious?!?!?!?

Strive, are you a STAR? If not a STAR or any part of the MYSTIC FAMILIES, please do not start on something else because they and being a Zeta ARE NOT one in the same nor do they conflict as being a member of another Sorority and trying to become a Zeta because they are not pleased with their first choice.

What gives me the right to say what I have? I AM PROUDLY a member of a MYSTIC FAMILY, ZETA, and GAMMA SIGMA SIGMA..... none of which conflict with the other, and my affiliation with each was NEVER hidden from the other.

To the young lady, who started this thread, PLEASE encourage your friend to be forthright in her intentions and do as my Soror Finer...... said..... for her to speak with the Zetas on her campus who can lead her in the RIGHT direction. If she tries to play slick and deny what very well may have been a HASTY MISTAKE....... it is very likely that she will be found out and given a VERY HARD way to go on campus.

**Please note, that this post is not an attack on anyone nor their opinion. As others, I am merely stating mine. Thank you all. Stay blessed and have a good day.

nikki1920 · #32 10-31-2005, 01:19 PM

Thank you and good night!

Strive · #33 10-31-2005, 05:19 PM

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Originally posted by Intense1920
Strive check you PM.

Got the PM, check yours.

Strive · #34 10-31-2005, 05:26 PM

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Originally posted by TwyceAWhyteRoze
Wow!

I heard about this, but I REALLY did not believe that this was possible.

Are you serious?!?!?!?

Strive, are you a STAR? If not a STAR or any part of the MYSTIC FAMILIES, please do not start on something else because they and being a Zeta ARE NOT one in the same nor do they conflict as being a member of another Sorority and trying to become a Zeta because they are not pleased with their first choice.

What gives me the right to say what I have? I AM PROUDLY a member of a MYSTIC FAMILY, ZETA, and GAMMA SIGMA SIGMA..... none of which conflict with the other, and my affiliation with each was NEVER hidden from the other.

To the young lady, who started this thread, PLEASE encourage your friend to be forthright in her intentions and do as my Soror Finer...... said..... for her to speak with the Zetas on her campus who can lead her in the RIGHT direction. If she tries to play slick and deny what very well may have been a HASTY MISTAKE....... it is very likely that she will be found out and given a VERY HARD way to go on campus.

**Please note, that this post is not an attack on anyone nor their opinion. As others, I am merely stating mine. Thank you all. Stay blessed and have a good day.

No, I am not an Eastern star.

One soror mention that a social org is a social org. Eastern Star is a social org in a sense. I just use Eastern Star as an example of a social org. No offense intended.

Second, I see no conflict with the young lady's friend being a part of Zeta and her Hispanic sorority. From my understanding of the post, the young lady's friend belongs to a non-NPHC sorority.
Her friend has the right to pursue Zeta all she wants to.

Pursuing Zeta and being accepted to Zeta are two entirely different things.

Chaoz · #35 11-07-2005, 01:35 PM

Drkprty

First in foremost I would like to commend you on your courage to even step forward and ask an earnest question. However for questions such as these I believe that it would be best to talk to Zeta's that are active on your campus, someone from greek affairs or contact nationals and ask your question.

When you post questions such as this on a website you will recieve a lot of mixed messages and possibly some other uneccesary mess..

I wish you the best in your quest for information.

God Bless

*Strive* Whats up Sis? I am feeling your posts...do your thing and be successful at it!

Finer Woman10-A-91 · #36 11-07-2005, 06:30 PM

Chaoz,

I am not sure who you are, but the best advice given regarding membership is pretty universal on Greekchat... and that advice is simple-- 1. Check the International official website for answers 2. Speak to members of the chapter where one is pursuing interests.

One would NOT contact Nationals for membership issues if one is not a member. The International Headquarters of Zeta Phi Beta Sorority, Inc. is the administrative office of the membership not the clearing house for random information on "how can I be down inquiries made by non-members". The International website provides more than enough names and contacts for non-members if they have questions or are looking for a chapter.

Nor should an interest contact Greek Affairs office to find out specifics on any organization. The only information a Greek affairs office will provide is whether said organization is active on the campus and perhaps some random statistics about Greek life on said campus.

Chaoz, when you get a moment, please introduce yourself to the board in the thread "Allow me to introduce myself". If your "sis" reference to Strive implied you are a member of Zeta Phi Beta Sorority, Inc. The rest of your Sorors would like to know who you are and where you are from.

Best,
FinerWoman10-A-91

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Originally posted by Chaoz
Drkprty

...However for questions such as these I believe that it would be best to talk to Zeta's that are active on your campus, someone from greek affairs or contact nationals and ask your question.

DevineFeline · #37 01-14-2006, 11:57 PM

yeppers....... you took the words right out of my mouth. In addition, you don't just "change your mind" after you join your organization or say "this doesn't quite fit me.... you should know this before hand

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Originally posted by TheEpitome1920
This Zeta would vote "nay" on that situation. Membership in Zeta is by invitation only to women who have not held membership in similiar greek letter organizations.

DevineFeline · #38 01-15-2006, 12:10 AM

not only am I going to pray for you..... but I will also extent a hand in offering you some english and grammar lesson, per private messaging...

It ok.... its ok

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Originally posted by ShamikaT
I wish yall stay on subject. People attention ho'ing while others are having good conversatings just irk me!

Intense1920 · #39 01-15-2006, 05:51 PM

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Originally posted by DevineFeline
not only am I going to pray for you..... but I will also extent a hand in offering you some english and grammar lesson, per private messaging...

It ok.... its ok

Hey Soror, we've come and gone with. Let sleeping dogs lie. LOL

DevineFeline · #40 01-15-2006, 09:19 PM

uh yea.... Sandi told me.....

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Originally posted by Intense1920
Hey Soror, we've come and gone with. Let sleeping dogs lie. LOL

ShamikaT · #41 01-15-2006, 09:22 PM

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Originally posted by DevineFeline
not only am I going to pray for you..... but I will also extent a hand in offering you some english and grammar lesson, per private messaging...

It ok.... its ok

Girl, you can suck my right BOOB!!!

btb87 · #42 01-15-2006, 09:29 PM

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Originally posted by ShamikaT
Girl, you can suck my right BOOB!!!

C'mon ShamikaT; you're not looking like a good Christian witness right now. . .and you're also blowing your chances for becoming a Zetar (still ain't figured out what that is). . .

zphi1920 · #43 01-18-2006, 01:13 AM

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Originally posted by btb87
C'mon ShamikaT; you're not looking like a good Christian witness right now. . .and you're also blowing your chances for becoming a Zetar (still ain't figured out what that is). . .

Me neither....but I do know it does not stand for the members of Zeta Phi Beta Sorority, INC.