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06-27-2003, 01:45 AM
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01-12-2007, 04:07 PM
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What if you are married to one, with a family, and the other has been an ex for several years, but you just can't let go?
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01-12-2007, 04:11 PM
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What if you are married to one, with a family, and the other has been an ex for several years, but you just can't let go?
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pretty much you're screwed
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01-12-2007, 06:20 PM
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What if you are married to one, with a family, and the other has been an ex for several years, but you just can't let go?
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Please give us more details-- we love people to air their dirty laundry on here!!
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01-12-2007, 09:15 PM
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OK, I'll admit it. I have a dirty mind....  |
Me too. 
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01-13-2007, 01:33 AM
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How about this... Your first spouse dies. You will always be "in love" with that person, but it doesn't mean you won't also fall in love with someone else again. I think it's totally possible to be in love with two people at once.
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01-13-2007, 04:38 PM
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Originally Posted by AGDee
How about this... Your first spouse dies. You will always be "in love" with that person, but it doesn't mean you won't also fall in love with someone else again. I think it's totally possible to be in love with two people at once.
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I think that's different. If you're in love with two living people at the same time, you're not really in love with either of them -- or if you are, it's some lame ass kind of love that I wouldn't care to experience.
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01-14-2007, 09:40 PM
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Troof. It seems that if you were "in love" with two people, it would either have to be twins who were duping you, or the "love" was so weak as to be kinda shady.
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01-15-2007, 01:47 AM
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Originally Posted by valkyrie
I think that's different. If you're in love with two living people at the same time, you're not really in love with either of them -- or if you are, it's some lame ass kind of love that I wouldn't care to experience.
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I think that's really different too - if somebody is dead you shouldn't really be "actively" loving them. (Sounds bad, but I hope you can get what I'm saying.)
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04-25-2007, 10:18 AM
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I think it's possible but not one and the same way!
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04-25-2007, 11:42 AM
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Sure I think it's possible. In polygamous households, I'm certain that the head of the household in some cases loves at least some or all of his (or her) spouses.
Do I think it's a little strange? Yeah.. but that's because I'm from a strictly monogamous background. Does strange mean impossible? Nope.
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04-26-2007, 08:25 PM
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04-27-2007, 07:08 PM
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I think you can love two people at the same time, but being IN love is such a powerful and entirely overwhelming experience I think it is only possible to have with one person at a time. I believe you never truly stop loving someone, it just becomes a different kind of feeling/love.
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04-27-2007, 07:45 PM
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I had refused to even look at this thread b/c I thought it was really dirty!
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Originally Posted by tickledpink
*smiling* Ahem, ladies, dirty minds aside... No, not true love. When you truly love someone that way, you simply cannot love someone else the same. When you truly love someone, your feelings and emotions are wrapped up in that one person, and you don't have the desire to look at anyone else.
Usually when people say they love two people at once, they're not in true love. They may love one quality about one person, and love something else about the other
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Well said!!
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