I DONT DRINK and IVE NEVER TRULY PARTIED, IS THIS BAD,

lovepwrgrl · #1 12-05-2007, 12:54 AM

jwsteele · #2 12-05-2007, 01:03 AM

They won't ask you about parties or drinking during rush. And I can almost guarantee you there will be sisters in your sorority that don't drink. So I wouldn't worry about it.

Velocity_14 · #3 12-05-2007, 01:33 AM

Sometimes in life, your character is shaped by what you don't do. Jwsteele is right, I wouldn't worry about it either...just be you and hold on to those values and standards that sets you apart from the common folk. Conformity can be boring and frankly unnecessary at times. You just be you and everything will be fine.

Unfortunately, I cannot say that I have never drank but I am not really a party person myself so...its all good. Stay true to yourself and everything else will work itself out

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***I had to edit this post because this child has shown herself to be a complete idiot! She is just looking for trouble and feels the need utilize her time being an a$$ instead. She wants to be a part of Phi Mu----good luck because she will surely need it!***

KSUViolet06 · #4 12-05-2007, 01:53 AM

Every sorority has different types of girls in it. There are some who like to party alot, some who party occasionally, and others who don't really get into that at all.

It's possible to be in a sorority, not really party, and have an enjoyable experience. I was one of those girls who partied occasionally, and only really drank once I was over 21. I still had alot of fun.

Glitter650 · #5 12-05-2007, 12:59 PM

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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06

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It's possible to be in a sorority, not really party, and have an enjoyable experience. I was one of those girls who partied occasionally, and only really drank once I was over 21. I still had alot of fun.

I was the EXACT same. I just enjoyed going to parties to hang out with my sisters, and meet new people. Although I did eventually drink (but not till after I was 21) I had no need to go drinking every other (or EVERY night of the week)

I mean a sorority is a social experience, so you don't want to shut yourself away, however not shutting yourself away doesn't mean you have to puke your guts out after every party, either.

Zeta13Girl · #6 12-05-2007, 01:58 AM

I can honestly say that I've had a sister who didn't drink at parties. I've also had sisters who have remained virgins until they were married I know sometimes girls worry about that too(just in case this was an issue you were afraid to bring up)... we had a girl rush the other semester and that was a big issue for her... her blood sister belonged to another organization but she didnt want to belong to that one because that wasnt who she was. If you find the right group of girls they will accept you for who you are. If you are ever put in a position where you feel like you have to compromise your morals or values to be accepted runaway thats not the place for you... your sisters will love you for who you are ... or in this case who you are not. You should go somewhere where you don't have to be anything but yourself.

Depending on your situation you might even be surprised to find that some fraternity boys will respect you on a higher level as well

Benzgirl · #7 12-05-2007, 08:53 AM

Don't worry about either. You will be encouraged to attend mixers and I encourage you to go. No one should force alcohol on you either. At least that was my experience.

I didn't drink or party much either, but always attended the TGs (Themed Gatherings) with the Fraternities. It was a great way to meet people, and I left it at that.

Ole Miss Phi Mu · #8 12-05-2007, 12:20 PM

I'm in a sorority and I'm not in to partying all the time and I don't drink, and you know what I still have a good time with my sisters. Most sororities don't care if you don't drink, so I wouldn't worry about it at all!