Two men/women at the same time?

[Sexy Mocha]

Is it possible to love two men/women at the same time?

[Serenity]

OK, I'll admit it. I have a dirty mind....

Sexy Mocha, I'll have to think about this one. However, I want to say yes, it is possible. But, like I said, let me gather my thoughts on this issue.

[thesweetestone]

Originally Posted by Serenity

OK, I'll admit it. I have a dirty mind....

Me too.

[AGDee]

How about this... Your first spouse dies. You will always be "in love" with that person, but it doesn't mean you won't also fall in love with someone else again. I think it's totally possible to be in love with two people at once.

[valkyrie]

Originally Posted by AGDee

How about this... Your first spouse dies. You will always be "in love" with that person, but it doesn't mean you won't also fall in love with someone else again. I think it's totally possible to be in love with two people at once.

I think that's different. If you're in love with two living people at the same time, you're not really in love with either of them -- or if you are, it's some lame ass kind of love that I wouldn't care to experience.

[Munchkin03]

Troof. It seems that if you were "in love" with two people, it would either have to be twins who were duping you, or the "love" was so weak as to be kinda shady.

[GeekyPenguin]

Originally Posted by valkyrie

I think that's different. If you're in love with two living people at the same time, you're not really in love with either of them -- or if you are, it's some lame ass kind of love that I wouldn't care to experience.

I think that's really different too - if somebody is dead you shouldn't really be "actively" loving them. (Sounds bad, but I hope you can get what I'm saying.)

[mulattogyrl]

Originally Posted by thesweetestone

Me too.

Me three.

[trideltrockstar]

I think you can love two people at the same time, but being IN love is such a powerful and entirely overwhelming experience I think it is only possible to have with one person at a time. I believe you never truly stop loving someone, it just becomes a different kind of feeling/love.

[1908Revelations]

I had refused to even look at this thread b/c I thought it was really dirty!

Originally Posted by tickledpink

*smiling* Ahem, ladies, dirty minds aside... No, not true love. When you truly love someone that way, you simply cannot love someone else the same. When you truly love someone, your feelings and emotions are wrapped up in that one person, and you don't have the desire to look at anyone else.

Usually when people say they love two people at once, they're not in true love. They may love one quality about one person, and love something else about the other

Mocha, I don't think many men will answer this post for fear that it may incriminate them...

Well said!!

[ZChi4Life]

Mocha,
Now let me ask this before I post. Are you asking if it's possible to love 2 people at once or are you asking if it's possible to be IN love w/ 2 people at once?

[This message has been edited by ZChi4Life (edited August 12, 2000).]

[blu_theatrics]

That's it exactly, I think it's possible to love too people, but not to be in love with two.

[Serenity]

OK, I do think you can be in love with two men at the same time. I was in this situation myself. Long story, a lot of history....

Anyway, the problem comes in when you try to be in two relationships at the same time. I chose not to do that. I had to make a choice and I did. It wasn't easy, but it wasn't fair to either man involved.

It was a learning experience. Sometimes, you just have to let go and move on.

*Insert "Butterfly" by Mariah Cary*



[This message has been edited by Serenity (edited August 13, 2000).]

[Sexy Mocha]

Can you be in love with two people at the same time is what I meant...I think it's possible, I wanted to get everyone else's opinion.

[Sexy Mocha]

Serenity, you are too funny! I could definitely see where a dirty mind could get something totally different out of the topic! Now that you mention it....that would be quite an interesting topic!