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People can be really stinky sometimes, especially when they "want" something. She is trying to cover her tracks by casting blame on you. This, she feels, will help her attain her goal of getting back in the house.
She does nothing w/ the greek system and basically looks down upon me even if I attend a philanthropy event.
...and you consider her your best friend?
also how do you think the house feels about her?
That's a hard question. If they are in need of "numbers", it may not matter to them initially. If they are a "top" house, they may take a "You blew it" attitude.
The truth USUALLY comes out in words or deeds. It may not show right away, but considering the amount of commitment involved in membership to a GLO, her reasons will eventually become clear.
Maybe she really feels she made a mistake. Maybe your DAing spurred her on even though you didn't intend your feelings to color hers. Perhaps she is more a follower than a leader and she is bouncing around trying to find her niche.
My advice-let it play out. Don't concern yourself with her ambiguity. In a small campus setting, this can be difficult but
why concern yourself with another house? Sometimes friendships are put to a test, and those that know you will eventually see the real deal. It's hard to protect yourself against words (much less lies) but the less you react to what she says, the deeper the hole she will dig. However, when faced with a bald faced lie, a reply of, "That's simply not true." is appropriate ... as may be some new friends.
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Feeling betrayed.......
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