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Old 05-06-2010, 04:47 PM
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The reason why some of us aren't babydaddies turns 50.

(CBS) This week is the 50th anniversary of the pill, a medical breakthrough that has changed society and the sexual landscape forever.

It still has critics, but 100 million women around the world use it to control when and how many times they become pregnant.

Planned Parenthood President Cecile Richards told CBS News, "The invention of the birth control pill revolutionized life for women in America. It's completely changed women's options."

The Pill promised to free women from biological bonds, and it did just that.

In the 1950s, women made up about a third of the workforce. Today, women hold nearly half of all U.S. jobs. In the 1950s, American women on average had 3.8 children. Today, that number has dropped to 2.1.

Richards said, "It made them able to pursue high education, pursue careers and plan the size of their families, which was something they could never do before."

For the first decade after its creation, the pill could only be legally prescribed to married women. However, even with that condition, it was condemned by the Catholic Church and many conservatives.

Historian Ellen Chesler, author of "Woman of Valor: Margaret Sanger and the Birth Control Movement in America," said, "It was really considered immoral to suggest that women's primary role should not be that of wife and mother, but rather that women should have rights to experience their sexuality free of consequence, just like men have always done."

Gloria Steinem, a longtime leading feminist, said on "The Early Show" Thursday that sexual acceptance with The Pill was the subject of her first piece in Esquire magazine in 1962.

"I ended up saying that the problem was the acceptance of women's sexuality, as much as the women's ability to control it. Were there enough liberated men to go around to the newly liberated women? Which turned out to be kind of prescient."


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Old 05-06-2010, 05:16 PM
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The title of this thread is a thread in and of itself. LOL.
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Old 05-06-2010, 05:23 PM
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The title of this thread is a thread in and of itself. LOL.
Haha, I'm pretty sure whatever madmax is calling himself will show up and make some silly racialist comments.
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Old 05-06-2010, 05:38 PM
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Haha, I'm pretty sure whatever madmax is calling himself will show up and make some silly racialist comments.
Get a job and take care of your kids.

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Old 05-06-2010, 05:50 PM
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LOL. That's one of the topics.

I was thinking more along the lines of "where's the condom?"
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Old 05-06-2010, 06:36 PM
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The title of this thread is a thread in and of itself. LOL.
i had to read it twice to understand it. but that could be because i'm on my nth glass of crown royal & coke w lime
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Old 05-06-2010, 07:23 PM
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i had to read it twice to understand it. but that could be because i'm on my nth glass of crown royal & coke w lime
where is my glass?
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Old 05-06-2010, 08:34 PM
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I wonder how many woman take it for reasons unrelated to pregnancy, like endometriosis, PCOS, dysmennorhea, regularity, acne, cramps, being able to skip a month for vacation, and so on. I don't know a lot of women who take the pill/path/ring just for birth control, and many use condoms anyway because of STDs and a back up barrier method.
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Old 05-06-2010, 09:18 PM
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"The reason why some of us aren't babydaddies" ... interesting way of putting it. It's also the reason why some of us aren't babymamas, the reason why some of us haven't had to seek (or had our partners seek) illegal abortions and suffer through the complications thereof, and the reason why some of us don't have more children than we can support financially and psychologically.
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Old 05-06-2010, 09:25 PM
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I wonder how many woman take it for reasons unrelated to pregnancy...
Me!


Ironically, a few of my friends who are pregnant now, were on BC when they got pregnant. Reminds me of the Friends episode when Ross & Joey find out that condoms are only like 97% effective lol.
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Old 05-06-2010, 09:36 PM
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Welcome to Sex Ed!

The video that I watched earlier discussed how the pill marked the symbolic end of women being relegated to barefoot and pregnant status.
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Old 05-06-2010, 09:45 PM
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If you've ever seen the TV version of David Halberstam's book The Fifties, they talk about The Pill in one of the episodes. The impetus for it was married women and women in underdeveloped children who didn't want to have any more kids - NOT for a sexual revolution for young single women. One of the unintended consequences was that the daughters started taking Mom's pills and replacing them with aspirin, leading to a very surprised Mom when she subsequently got pregnant.
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Old 05-06-2010, 09:48 PM
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^^ Oh snap!

The pill only permitted for married women for the first decade or so. Interesting shift in norms.

I wish I could find the videos from the 50th anniversary story that I saw earlier. It showed the first sitcoms ever and how they referenced the pill.
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Old 05-07-2010, 09:46 AM
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I know you didn't I wasn't taking it personally.

I hadn't thought about the insurance aspect for having another reason to "need" them. I've been lucky to have my insurance cover them or, when it didn't (like in college), I went to Planned Parenthood or WomanCare for them and only paid like $4 a month then (while battling my way through the line of abortion protestors, I might add... dang they used to piss me off!)
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Old 05-07-2010, 12:11 PM
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I know you didn't I wasn't taking it personally.

I hadn't thought about the insurance aspect for having another reason to "need" them. I've been lucky to have my insurance cover them or, when it didn't (like in college), I went to Planned Parenthood or WomanCare for them and only paid like $4 a month then (while battling my way through the line of abortion protestors, I might add... dang they used to piss me off!)
I went on it for purely contraceptive reasons, but my first doctor told me that if my insurance ever gave me grief, she would say that it was for cramps. She had been practicing for about 25 years at that point and knew which companies wouldn't cover it. She was great--she ended up retiring because of how expensive malpractice insurance was for Florida OB/GYNs.

I can't stand those protesters. I used to volunteer as a clinic escort at a place that did early abortions and D&Cs (along with other procedures--it was a normal clinic). It would suck to have to go in for a post-miscarriage D&C or even like a broken toe and have protesters yelling at you.
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